Two decades later, leaving behind a high paying corporate career, becoming an Entrepreneur, starting, owning, running and failing multiple businesses, a mother of 3 beautiful kids, I am still striving to reach my full potential.
This is my husband's batchmate, who recently bought a brand new SUV MG Hector. Today my husband shared this picture telling me, "he is my classmate who topped every year during graduation". However my dear husband failed every year during graduation.
Two decades later, my husband has a Diabetes Care hospital, and now eagerly waiting for his brand new Toyota Innova Crysta to be delivered before Diwali.
2005 when we got married, most of our peers were married, settled abroad, either having kids, owning a house, a car or having a high paying Corporate Job or Hospital.
Life is set when you follow a tried and tested formula. Living a life like a prescription, get good marks, get a job, get married, have children, buy a house, a car, and the list goes on and on.
Now how do you measure Success? When you follow the formula or when you carve your own path? Living by design, doing what you love, breaking rules, and barriers or living by duty, people's expectations or agenda for you.
The number of degrees, certificates, assets, kids, define success or the freedom of time, money and experience of heartfelt connections with people around you. What defines SUCCESS?
SUCCESS means the accomplishment of an aim or a purpose.
Why an aim or purpose? It is determined by what is driving you? What are you left with? In your experience of Life?
Are you in a race? Attached to accumulating things, fullfilling desires and controlling people? Experience joy and happiness in winning the game of Life.
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Are you living for a purpose, a vision, a goal, passionately fulfilling, on your dream, by surrendering to a mission? Experience the joy and happiness of inspiring and contributing to people and the planet.
For many people, having peace of mind, winning over their fear and anxiety is an achievement. Having a lot of money, fans, friends or followers, name, fame, social status, authority and power decides success.
A good friend of mine once said, "as per the law of nature, every living thing is here to be consumed by another ". So we are completely in charge of what is driving our life, to be either consumed by our unique purpose or fulfilling people's expectations of us. In both cases we are a contribution.
We are successful in every aspect of our life, when we achieve our goals, honour our word, be of service, share our knowledge, wisdom, having our voices heard, making bold choices, experience belongingness, being cherished, valued, appreciated and loved for who we are.
Let me know in the comments "What success means to you? How do you define your success?
